Sandra Onyenaucheya-Edoho, is the pretty new wife of “Who Wants To Be A Millionaire” TV show host, Frank Edoho. She recently shared this advice for couples on her facebook page. Here it is:
“We are in an era where there is this craze to let everyone know what is happening in our relationships, marriages and lives! It’s a time where things that should be said to our loved ones in private are now being said to the public (twitter, Facebook, blogs, etc).
It’s a time devoid of intimacy, real feelings and care. It’s a time for show! To compete amongst one another who loves who more! And very openly too. Our relationships are now open to public opinion, through “likes”, harsh criticisms and horrible words! We probably have all made that mistake one time in our lives!
Yes, it’s a huge and horrible mistake!! Because it involves 3rd parties and public opinion. What is supposed to be said to your lover in confidence and privacy is now up for public discussion, debate, bashing and opinions. This, in my opinion is a cancer that destroys relationships because useless opinions from useless, unintelligent people begin to matter!
Love your partners privately, text them all the love messages privately; send private pictures to them and them alone! Leave the world out of it all, this will bring about a truly lasting relationship… #my-own-opinion# Please feel free to share your opinion on this…”